June 20, 2025 6 min read

There comes a moment on every sacred journey where the longing for love—true love—turns inward. Where the soul grows weary of chasing reflections in others,
and instead begins to seek the Beloved within.

And in that turning… everything false must fall away.

Because divine union was never about finding “the one” outside of us.
It was about remembering we have always been both..
Both the Beloved and the Seeker.
Both the Masculine and the Feminine.
Both the Question and the Answer.

But to embody this sacred truth,
you must first walk through the shadows of the false.
You must feel every fracture within you that learned to forsake yourself in the name of love—not just in romance, but in family, in friendship, in community.

To come home to yourself, you must first grieve every part of you that thought love required leaving an aspect of yourself behind.

This is the path of Divine Union.
The sacred marriage of your inner feminine and inner masculine coming into holy matrimony. The reclamation of your eternal sovereignty.

The Illusion of Seeking Love Outside Ourselves

On the human journey, we are often conditioned from an early age to seek love, validation, and wholeness from sources outside of ourselves. This pattern begins in childhood, as we learn—consciously or unconsciously—that acceptance, safety, and belonging may come at a cost:

  • Silencing our true feelings to avoid rejection.

  • Taking on roles or identities to be praised or included.

  • Shrinking or shapeshifting parts of ourselves to maintain connection.

Over time, these survival strategies create internal division. We start to believe that love, worth, and safety are something we must earn, perform for, or find in another person.

As we grow, this pattern often extends into:

  • Romantic partnerships, where we seek completion in the other.

  • Friendships, where we overextend ourselves to be valued.

  • Family relationships, where we compromise our truth to preserve harmony.

This dynamic keeps us locked in cycles of seeking outward what can only be found inward. It also leaves us fragmented—disconnected from the integrated, sovereign self we came here to embody.

What is Divine Union, Truly?

Before we can understand the holy purge, we must first understand what divine union actually is.

Divine union is the state of inner wholeness where the sacred masculine and feminine energies within you are reconciled and harmonized.

  • The inner feminine holds your capacity for intuition, receptivity, creativity, emotional depth, and connection to the unseen.

  • The inner masculine embodies your ability to create structure, take aligned action, protect, and provide stability.

When these energies are unified within:
- You no longer feel a desperate need to seek completion in another.
- You experience relationships as reflections of your wholeness, rather than remedies for your perceived lack.
- You navigate life with a sense of balance, sovereignty, and self-trust.


How We Become Disconnected from Inner Union

Over lifetimes, and within this one, many of us accumulate layers of wounding and conditioning that fracture this inner harmony:

  • Cultural or familial programming that devalues certain aspects of our being (e.g., emotional expression, vulnerability, sensitivity, strength).

  • Trauma or heartbreak that causes us to suppress parts of ourselves for safety.

  • Relationships that reinforce the belief that love must be earned or maintained at the cost of our authenticity.

These distortions create:

  • An over-reliance on external sources for validation and worth.

  • Difficulty trusting our own inner guidance.

  • Patterns of over-giving, people-pleasing, or controlling.

  • Cycles of attracting relationships that mirror our internal imbalance rather than our wholeness.

Divine union with self requires the conscious unwinding of these distortions so we can return to truth.This is where the holy purge begins its sacred work.

The Holy Purge: A Sacred Rite of Clearing

At some point, the soul calls for realignment.
It asks to release what no longer serves.
This is the sacred threshold known as the holy purge.

What is the holy purge?

It is the process of:

  • Shedding false beliefs about love and worth.

  • Releasing attachments to relationships that required you to betray yourself.

  • Grieving the parts of you that thought love meant sacrifice of truth.

The holy purge is not about loss—it is about making space for authentic union to emerge.
It is the unmaking of what is not you so that what is can rise.

What might you experience during this purge?

  • Emotional release: tears, anger, waves of grief.

  • Revisiting past relationships or memories with new clarity.

  • Physical sensations: heart heaviness, throat tightness, nervous system shifts.

  • A desire for solitude, introspection, or deeper spiritual practice.

The purge can feel intense, but it is a sacred cleansing. You are not falling apart—you are clearing the way for your truth to anchor.

The Holy Purge and the Path of Christ Consciousness

The holy purge is not just a personal process of healing—it is part of the greater spiritual journey known as the path of Christ Consciousness.

What is Christ Consciousness?

Christ Consciousness refers to the state of divine awareness where you remember your true nature as both human and divine, both of earth and of spirit.
It is not tied to a religion or figure—it is a universal frequency of unconditional love, unity, and sovereignty.

The path of Christ Consciousness invites you to:

  • Dissolve the illusion of separation between you and the Divine.

  • Integrate the masculine and feminine energies within, achieving inner union.

  • Live in alignment with truth, compassion, and sacred service.

  • Recognize that divinity is not something outside of you—it is what you are.

How does the holy purge serve Christ Consciousness?

The holy purge is a necessary rite on the Christed path because it clears away:

  • False beliefs that you are unworthy or incomplete.

  • Attachments that bind you to external validation or distorted love.

  • Energetic debris from lifetimes of seeking outside what was always within.

The holy purge is the shedding of the false self so that the Christed self—the true, sovereign self—can rise.It is the alchemical process that prepares the inner temple for divine union, not just within you but between you and God itself.

Why is this connection important?

Understanding the link between the holy purge and Christ Consciousness helps you:

  • See your healing journey as part of a larger, sacred process—not just personal, but eternal.

  • Recognize that the pain of the purge is purposeful—it is clearing the way for you to walk in alignment with your highest truth.

  • Anchor deeper devotion to the path—not chasing perfection, but embodying the love and unity that Christed awareness represents.

A Reflection for This Stage of the Journey

The holy purge is not about losing yourself.
It is about shedding what you are not, so that what you truly are—divine, whole, sovereign—can emerge.

This is the path of Christ Consciousness.
Not a destination.
Not a title.
But a way of being that radiates love from within, and recognizes that all union begins in the sacred heart of the self.

How Divine Union Flower Essence Supports This Process

The Divine Union Flower Essence was created as an energetic ally for this exact stage of the journey. Its formula combines flower essences that:

  • Support emotional release.

  • Repair inner fragmentation.

  • Recalibrate your field for sacred inner union.

The medicine of each flower:

Green Fairy Orchid — Opens the energetic field for deep, soul-level intimacy without losing selfhood.
Twinflower — Heals inner division, supports balance between giving and receiving, action and surrender.
Lotus — Elevates the soul from karmic entanglements, restores connection to spiritual sovereignty.
Scarlet Fritillary — Strengthens discernment and emotional boundaries, heals where vulnerability was once exploited.
Sage — Clears residual cords, energetic debris, and confusion from past relationships.
Redwood — Anchors divine masculine energy—stability, protection, strength within the self.
Hibiscus — Awakens sacred sensuality, clears shame around desire and creative life force.
Star of Bethlehem — Gently repairs soul fractures and soothes emotional trauma.
Hollyhock (Holyyoke) — Encourages dignity, strength, and blooming in the midst of chaos. Helps you embody the sacred architecture of union.

Each drop carries not only plant wisdom but an energetic template for divine union, gently guiding you through the purge and into inner harmony.

How to Work with the Essence

Create sacred space: Light a candle, sit quietly, breathe deeply.
Place one hand on your heart, one on your womb.
Take 2–4 drops under the tongue.
Set an intention: Speak aloud or in your heart:

“I release all the ways I have abandoned myself for love.
I call home my truth.
I restore the sacred marriage within.
I am whole.”

Allow space for what arises: Journal, meditate, rest, or simply feel.
Repeat daily or as guided by intuition.

The essence is gentle yet powerful—it meets you where you are and helps you move at the pace your soul is ready for.

The Sacred Return

When the purge is complete—or even as it unfolds—you begin to feel the return:

  • The return of your truth, no longer hidden.

  • The return of your sovereignty, no longer negotiated.

  • The return of your wholeness, no longer fragmented by external seeking.

From this place:
- Your relationships shift..they reflect your inner union rather than your inner wounds.
- You no longer give away your power for love, because love flows from within you.
- You stand in your truth, unshaken, as both the Beloved and the Seeker united.

The path of divine union is not a destination. It is a way of living—where every step, every purge, every return brings you closer to your authentic, sovereign self.

You are not broken—you are breaking free.
You are not lost—you are returning home.
You are not waiting—you are becoming.

And in this becoming, love no longer feels like something to find.
It feels like something you eternally embody.


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